Prolong Erection? - This may come as a shock you.
So you want to prolong your erection?
If you're like me and most other men you want more than just prolonging your erection, doubling it would be considered a success, right? - However...
a major multinational study by Revecki et al. (2008) found that what most males who suffer from premature ejaculation want was control!
Consider that the earlier Kinsey studies found that most, almost 75%, of American males ejaculate within 2 minutes after entry, whereas females need 15 to 30 minutes of intercourse to orgasm.
Two minutes may not seem like much but compared to other mammals this is no mean feat. Most other mammals ejaculate within a even shorter time with the female of the species not orgasming at all.
Ejaculating may make us feel relieved but when our partner does not orgasm it leaves us feeling less than satisfied.
It is not that females expect us to bring them to orgasm everytime, sometimes they are happy for us to just get it over and done with, surprised? I'll say a little more about this later.
For me, even though when I used my hands and mouth to give my partner sexual satisfaction and timed my entry, I felt as if making love, lacks the intimacy, the connection... something is missing. My inability to continue an erection affects my love life rather than my sex life.
Premature ejaculation made me feel just a little inferior, less manly somehow. Mostly anxious, frustrated, and disappointed...
What's more our partner knows we feel inadequate and don't say anything in case they “dent our ego" or”offend us”. They make light of it because they love us but somehow this makes it worse.
Now, when you both orgasm at the same time, there is that peak shared moment of total abandonment, exhiliration, expansion... everything that makes us feel satisfied.. those shared moments of release, tenderness, connection, vulnerabily and euphoria.
Revecki et. al.'s study also found that, contrary to popular belief that males do not want....
... longer erections because it makes them feel like studs or feeds their egos, But that they want to prolong erection to give them and our partners total sexual fulfilment.
...our level of satisfaction is directly linked to our partner’s satisfaction.
It's not your fault that you don't have automatic control, it's not like our penises come with a user manual. Suddenly oneday it has a mind of its own and we are left to figure it out, often in a cloud of guilt, confusion and innuendo.
Wouldn't it be wonderful if in your early years a mentor appeared that explained to you not only what was happening but how you can satisfy yourself and ultimately your partner...whats's best practice until you mastered it?
The truth is, if you are a healthy male and you don't suffer from a physical cause of erectile dysfunction you can control and maintain your erection until your partner orgasms as many times as she desires or until you decide to ejaculate.
For me, the critical measure of success of any product or treatment is control of ejaculation.
“Ultimate success would be Unlimited Control”
I know there are a lot of free tips and techniques out there, some of them which do more harm than good, so finally I invested, a suprisingly small amount, in myself and my realtionship and got some advice from a professional Sex Educator who explained a simple 3 step process, for more information www.ejaculation-control.org
No, its not an instant fix, I found out what really works and then put it into practice. It made alot of sense and gave me back my self-esteem and confidence. Of course once you gain a bit of this, it all becomes easier and you wonder what you were so worried and nervous about in the first place.
I did not tell my partner at first and knew I was onto a good thing when she said jokingly one night “Sean, are you having an affair – is someone coaching you?”
She wants more of me, more often.
Thankfully the whole transaction is confidential and instantaneous.
Sex is great, make the most of it. To your health.
Regards,
Sean Anthony.
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